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How to Find the Perfect Sex Chat from Sex Bots to Erotic Message Boards

Slutbot is a sex chat that allows you to customize your experience and interact with well-written, curated messages and stories.
Written by
Allison Moon
September 2, 2020
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How to Find the Perfect Sex Chat from Sex Bots to Erotic Message Boards

Slutbot is a sex chat that allows you to customize your experience and interact with well-written, curated messages and stories.
Written by
Allison Moon
September 2, 2020
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Sex chats are a great way to explore your sexuality and indulge in unique fantasies. Most sex chat sites connect the user with other people, most often in affinity group chat rooms, and have largely stayed the same in design since the dawn of the internet. Other sex chat sites pair users at random. Some sex chat sites function like phone sex hotlines, with paid performers responding to the the user’s texts. Sex chats like Slutbot work more like an AI, where the user interacts with a professionally written script.

Slutbot is a sex chat that allows you to customize your experience and interact with well-written, curated messages and stories. Created in collaboration with sex educators and erotic writers, Slutbot is both hot and educational. It can help you gain confidence sexting and prepare you to sex chat with real people. Unlike similar services, Slutbot allows you to explore a wide range of activities and fantasies as any gender and with any gender. Slutbot is both curated and automated, allowing you to converse whenever is most convenient on any smartphone. 

woman having fun sex chat on phone
Woman having a fun sex chat on her phone

The kind of sex chat a user will enjoy largely depends on the kind of experience they’d like to have. Some people may choose a more crafted experience catered to their own tastes. Others may prefer the adventure of chance meetings with strangers. 

Here are some other considerations:

Cost

Some sex chats allow for free trials. Sex chat rooms are often free to try after which there is a paid upgrade option. Or, the main room will be free, but private rooms are paid upgrades. Other programs, like Slutbot, allow for free use with optional paid upgrades. Nearly all chat programs matching users with paid performers have a cost.

User experience

Most sex chat apps require use on a browser. The exception is Slutbot, which is SMS-based, allowing you to chat directly in your messages app. This extra portability adds to the experience, as it feels like a real sexting interaction with a sex partner, rather than a chat room.

Slutbot is also distinct from other chatbots in that it allows the user to chat as any gender and with any gender they’d like. Each session starts by asking the user how they’d like to play. This extra level of adaptability can add to the erotic experience, allowing the user to imagine more varied scenarios than other bots.

Slutbot features a wide range of stories highlighting different sex acts and kinks. Users are encouraged to explore their interests and also exercise their right to say “no” or “maybe later,” allowing for a more user-driven experience than chat rooms where people may have competing interests or agendas.

Other paid chats with performers allow users to specify their interests and have the chat catered to their tastes.

Man trying sex chat on Slutbot, an SMS-based chatbot
Man trying sex chat on Slutbot, an SMS-based chatbot

Interactivity

Most sex chats are browser-based, making them best visited on a computer. Other apps may be downloaded onto a smartphone. Apps like Slutbot are SMS-based, meaning the chats occur within the user’s default messaging app.

With message rooms, users are chatting with other people, and negotiating based on common desires and interests. While this can add excitement and spontaneity, it can also be a challenge to find the right partner to chat with.

One-on-one chats with paid performers offer the opportunity to have a chat with a real person, but these often come with a high price tag. But they can be a great choice for people looking to sex chat about specific fantasies or fetishes.

Bot based apps offer a range of interactivity, limited by the “intelligence” of the bot. These can be a great choice for users who aren’t sure what they’d like to explore, and are open to a range of stories and ideas.

Finding the Perfect Sex Chat

1) Consider the experience you’d like to have. Do you want to connect with another person and help them explore their interests? Do you have specific fetishes you want to integrate into your sex chat? Do you want to learn more about yourself or find different routes to your turn on? Do you want to feel like you’re chatting with an actual lover or do you prefer to keep your chat buddies at a distance?

2) Consider your budget. There are sex chat options for every budget. But it’s a good idea to consider how much you’re willing to spend to indulge your pleasure.

3) Consider timing. When do you want to chat? Some sex chats like Slutbot emphasize portability through your smart phone. Others may have more active times in the chat rooms.

4) Take stock of your interests. Some sex chat bots lock users into gender, assuming the user is male and the bot is female, and have a limited (and sometimes stereotypical) menu of sex acts to explore. If you want to explore as a different gender or specific fetishes, take that into account when shopping for your ideal sex chat.

Finding the perfect sex chat for you may require a bit of research and experimentation. Consider signing up for free trials and “shopping around” to find the perfect fit for you.

Allison Moon
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Allison Moon
ALLISON MOON is the author of the award-winning queer sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, and the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke. She was a Lambda Literary Emerging LGBT Writers Fellow. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops, on polyamory, queer sexuality, and sex technique, to thousands of people around the US and Canada. Attachments area
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