With the popularity and convenience of dating apps such as Tinder, it means that dating is easier now, right? Well, anyone who has used the app can tell you that’s not necessarily true. The struggle of finding other singles in your area is replaced by having to look through hundreds of profiles. At the same time you have to compete for attention with catchy Tinder openers when you finally do find someone you like. So how do you not only catch the attention of a potential new partner, but also keep it going long enough to get to that pivotal first date? Well, our dating coaches at Juicebox, a dating and sexual wellness app, have some tips for making a great first impression, from bios to the art of creating Tinder openers that gets a response.
Messages like "hey" or "hi" are the Tinder openers that are the easiest to get overlooked when checking messages. They doesn’t say anything about who you are and put the burden on the other person to keep the conversation going. It may be enough to get them to take a look at your profile but to really get talking try some simple, but engaging lines.
It may sound obvious, but take the time to look at their pictures and read their bio. Try commenting on something unique you see. It doesn’t have to be some in-depth insight, but showing you put in some thought is a great start.
Since you’re checking out their bio, why not take a look at yours as well? There’s no ‘perfect’ formula that’s guaranteed to get you matches. But there are some simple tricks to make sure you’re not scaring (or boring) away potential dates.
If you want to be sure you have a polished bio that’s sure to catch some eyes, get your bio reviewed by the expert dating coaches on the Juicebox app, who can give you more personalized tips on your Tinder openers as well.
If you matched its safe to say they liked something they saw, so make sure you continue the strong first impression in your first line. These Tinder openers can range widely based on who you are, but remember to always be authentic. You may be tempted to try a suave persona in the beginning. Just know that eventually they’ll want to know the real you, so start off with your best, truest self.
It’s easy for a Tinder conversation to just kind of get forgotten between day to day activities, so sometimes the best move you can make is to get off the app and into your first in-person date. For making this transition, it’s best to be clear and simple; planning a get together is hard enough without worrying about being too charming while doing it.
Once you get the date, make sure you know what to talk about.
Finally, remember that in the end, messaging on Tinder is a numbers game. No matter how witty your Tinder opener or charming your bio, not everyone is looking for the same things. Don’t be afraid to send a lot of messages, and try different types of Tinder openers to see which works best for you. If you feel like you’re not getting as many responses as you want, or even after you’ve met someone and want some advice on dating, the Juicebox app provides confidential, one-on-one dating and relationship advice for all stages of your relationship from various experts and counselors. Dating is never easy, but with a little help it doesn’t have to be painful.